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Signs of Cheating - How Do I Know If My Partner Is Cheating on Me?
If you suspect your partner is cheating it can feel very scary and destabilizing. Check out this post for some guidance and clarity.

Raffi Bilek
Aug 155 min read


Should I Leave My Marriage?
Should I leave my marriage? This is a huge question. Take the quiz for greater clarity and read up on this critical information for making the right decision for you.

Raffi Bilek
Aug 114 min read


Does Texting Count as Cheating?
Can interactions that take place via texting be considered cheating? No easy answers; let's take a look.

Raffi Bilek
Jun 5, 20247 min read


Should I Make My Partner Take a Lie Detector Test?
Does a lie detector test help you figure out if your partner is cheating? It's not so simple.

Raffi Bilek
May 8, 20237 min read


Why Do People Cheat If They Love Their Partner?
It’s crazy. You thought you knew your partner. You thought the relationship was in a decent place. Sure, you have your fights from time to time. But this? How could they have cheated on you?

Raffi Bilek
Jan 4, 202311 min read


How Do I Tell My Partner I Cheated on Them?
You cheated on your partner. You feel terrible. What do you do now?

Raffi Bilek
Jun 2, 202212 min read


Can he cheat and still love me?
If you've discovered your partner having an affair - or you had one yourself - you might be asking if this means your relationship isn't real. If maybe your partner doesn't love you, or you don't love them. Let's understand what's going on here.

Raffi Bilek
May 5, 20226 min read


Should I tell my family that my partner cheated on me?
If you've been cheated on, you may be craving some family support. But can you tell your family what happened? Here are some considerations to take into account.

Raffi Bilek
May 5, 20215 min read


Should I Tell My Partner I Cheated?
Do you have to tell your partner that you cheated on them if the affair is over? Here are some factors to consider in answering this difficult question.

Raffi Bilek
Apr 6, 20216 min read


Once a Cheater Always a Cheater – True or False?
Once a cheater, always a cheater? Or can someone who cheated truly change and build a trusting relationship. The answer may surprise you!

Raffi Bilek
Jan 26, 20214 min read


6 Reasons Why People Cheat on Their Partners
Why do people cheat in relationships? Here's 6 reasons to consider - and only one of them has to do with a problem in the relationship itself.

Raffi Bilek
Jul 22, 20205 min read


4 Steps to Surviving Infidelity & What You Need to Know
<p>Crushed. Devastated. Hopeless. These are some of the emotions you may be experiencing if you have recently discovered that your partner has been having an affair.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 29, 20185 min read


Can an Affair Help the Relationship?
<p>Many people believe that infidelity unavoidably spells the end of a relationship. However, the truth is that many relationships survive the injury of an affair, and in fact many get much better in the aftermath. […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jul 13, 20173 min read


How to Catch a Cheating Husband
<p>If you are looking to catch your husband (or wife, boyfriend, etc.) cheating on you, you actually have two problems at hand, not one. The first, of course, is that your husband might be cheating […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Aug 8, 20162 min read


After the Affair: The Importance of Coming Clean Entirely
<p>When someone has an affair and is discovered or comes clean on their own, their instinct is often to soften the blow and/or minimize the damage, especially if they still care about their partner and […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
May 31, 20162 min read


A New Approach to Dealing with Cheaters
<p>I’m not saying I recommend this, but it certainly is one avenue a person could take… www.cnn.com/2015/09/24/europe/cheating-husband-billboard-sign Looking for information on this issue that’s a little more helpful? Take a look at our services for […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 1, 20151 min read


Infidelity Now and Then
<p>In the wake of the Ashley Madison leak, I got a lot of questions from friends and colleagues about the extent of the infidelity problem in America (at least, for those who consider it a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Sep 24, 20153 min read


How to Recover from an Affair - When You're the Cheater
<p>Here’s another article I wrote on managing a relationship after an affair – this one directed at the cheater: https://www.wellness.com/blog/13274483/how-to-recover-from-an-affair-when-you-re-the-cheater/raffi-bilek Learn more about our work with couples and infidelity here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jan 22, 20151 min read


Recovering from an Affair
<p>An affair is often thought of as a death blow to a marriage –the worst thing that could possibly happen to the relationship, from which there can be no recovery. The truth is that a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 14, 20141 min read


Love after Adultery
<p>It is commonly thought that adultery is a certain death blow to a marriage. After all, what could possibly do more injury to a relationship than an affair? It strikes us as the worst thing […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 8, 20142 min read
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