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4 Steps to Surviving Infidelity & What You Need to Know
<p>Crushed. Devastated. Hopeless. These are some of the emotions you may be experiencing if you have recently discovered that your partner has been having an affair.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 29, 20185 min read


Can an Affair Help the Relationship?
<p>Many people believe that infidelity unavoidably spells the end of a relationship. However, the truth is that many relationships survive the injury of an affair, and in fact many get much better in the aftermath. […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jul 13, 20173 min read


How to Catch a Cheating Husband
<p>If you are looking to catch your husband (or wife, boyfriend, etc.) cheating on you, you actually have two problems at hand, not one. The first, of course, is that your husband might be cheating […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Aug 8, 20162 min read


After the Affair: The Importance of Coming Clean Entirely
<p>When someone has an affair and is discovered or comes clean on their own, their instinct is often to soften the blow and/or minimize the damage, especially if they still care about their partner and […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
May 31, 20162 min read


A New Approach to Dealing with Cheaters
<p>I’m not saying I recommend this, but it certainly is one avenue a person could take… www.cnn.com/2015/09/24/europe/cheating-husband-billboard-sign Looking for information on this issue that’s a little more helpful? Take a look at our services for […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 1, 20151 min read


Infidelity Now and Then
<p>In the wake of the Ashley Madison leak, I got a lot of questions from friends and colleagues about the extent of the infidelity problem in America (at least, for those who consider it a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Sep 24, 20153 min read


How to Recover from an Affair - When You're the Cheater
<p>Here’s another article I wrote on managing a relationship after an affair – this one directed at the cheater: https://www.wellness.com/blog/13274483/how-to-recover-from-an-affair-when-you-re-the-cheater/raffi-bilek Learn more about our work with couples and infidelity here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jan 22, 20151 min read


Recovering from an Affair
<p>An affair is often thought of as a death blow to a marriage –the worst thing that could possibly happen to the relationship, from which there can be no recovery. The truth is that a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 14, 20141 min read


Love after Adultery
<p>It is commonly thought that adultery is a certain death blow to a marriage. After all, what could possibly do more injury to a relationship than an affair? It strikes us as the worst thing […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Oct 8, 20142 min read


Does Sexting Count as Cheating?
<p>Many people aren’t sure how to answer this question. When a married man is sending inappropriate text messages to another woman (or vice versa), does that “count” as an affair? The answer is really a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Sep 3, 20142 min read
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