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How to Have a Sex Life When You Have Kids (Yes, It's Possible!)
Every couple goes through it. Some were expecting it, some get blindsided. But it is totally normal to find that once you have kids, your sex life just isn’t the same as it was before.

Raffi Bilek
Mar 8, 20239 min read


How to Support Your Partner with Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction (AKA impotence) is a frustrating and embarrassing problem for anyone to have to deal with. Here are some ways a partner can support a man with this problem.

Raffi Bilek
Apr 11, 20229 min read


Why Sex Is Better When You’re Married
Sex is better when you're married. Seriously. Here's why.

Raffi Bilek
Jul 6, 20215 min read


How often do normal couples have sex? (The answer may surprise you.)
<p>How often do normal couples have sex? As frequently or infrequently as they want. This question is erroneously based on the idea that there is some number, or even a range, that we have to […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 19, 20194 min read


What Do You Do in Couples Counseling?
<p>If you’ve never been to relationship counseling before, the whole thing might seem mysterious, confusing, and downright frightening. The truth is it’s really not as bad as you think it is. The representations of therapy […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jun 6, 20185 min read
Sexual Abuse Prevention: Words for Private Parts
<p>There is a difference of opinions out there as to whether it is important to use the proper names for private parts when teaching children about their bodies and discussing sexual abuse issues (i.e., not […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jun 8, 20153 min read


The Mama Bear Effect - Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Coloring Pages
<p>A friend of mine passed these along to me – coloring pages to be used in discussing sexual abuse with your children. Check them out at http://themamabeareffect.org/coloring-pages.html. I think they are fantastic! This can really […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Mar 24, 20151 min read


The Truth About Married Sex
<p>I thought that this article about sex in marriage was really worth sharing. The basic premise is that sex in marriage is something you have to work at (like marriage itself, of course). When you […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Mar 11, 20151 min read
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