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Amanda Rosner
<p>Working with Caitlin for several sessions over the years, I find she is able to validate the areas of my life (my marriage, time management, pregnancy anxiety, child rearing, interpersonal relationships, work/home balance) I wished […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 22, 20151 min read


Chavi Shpilsky
<p>I met Caitlin about a year and a half ago. I moved into her community when I was newly married. I automatically felt comfortable with her. She has a warm disposition and so friendly. She […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 22, 20151 min read


Channah C.
<p>Raffi is insightful, intuitive, experienced, and has a sense of humor. I have full faith that anyone who enters into therapy with him will gain a deeper understanding of themselves; his goal is to give […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 22, 20151 min read


Andrew K. Stein
<p>I will always be grateful to Raffi for helping me through a very challenging time in my life. Within a few minutes of our first meeting, I was comfortable talking to him. He’s a superb […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 22, 20151 min read


The Importance of Listening
<p>Another guest post I wrote on a friend’s blog has generated some interesting conversation. See the article and subsequent comments at https://incensefromthealtar.wordpress.com/2015/02/05/the-importance-of-listening. Learn more about our couples counseling services here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 8, 20151 min read
The Impact of Family on Weight Loss
<p>A guest post of mine on a friend’s weight loss blog: http://weightlosscounterrevolution.com/2015/01/30/the-impact-of-family-on-weight-loss/ Learn more about our family therapy services here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Feb 1, 20151 min read


How to Recover from an Affair - When You're the Cheater
<p>Here’s another article I wrote on managing a relationship after an affair – this one directed at the cheater: https://www.wellness.com/blog/13274483/how-to-recover-from-an-affair-when-you-re-the-cheater/raffi-bilek Learn more about our work with couples and infidelity here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jan 22, 20151 min read


When Is Couples Counseling a Bad Idea?
<p>As you may have guessed, I am a big believer in marital therapy/couples counseling. I think it is helpful for a lot of people, and I think many folks would be much happier if they […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jan 10, 20152 min read


How to Get Your Kids to Brush Their Teeth (and Other Stories)
<p>My latest parenting article in the Where What When: Let me start with this question: How do you get your kids to brush their teeth every night? http://www.wherewhatwhen.com/article/how-to-get-your-kids-to-brush-their-teeth-and-other-stories Learn more about our parenting support services […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Jan 3, 20151 min read


Make it Holiday NOT A Holler-day
<p>Are you sitting there feeling overwhelmed with all the things you want to get done for the holidays. In fact you may be running around hollering at the fact that there is not enough time, […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 22, 20142 min read


Recovering from an Affair
<p>An affair is often thought of as a death blow to a marriage –the worst thing that could possibly happen to the relationship, from which there can be no recovery. The truth is that a […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 14, 20141 min read


Parenting in the iPhone Age
<p>An article I wrote in a local paper on a modern-day topic: http://jewishtimes.com/31779/parenting-in-the-iphone-age/ Learn more about our parenting workshops here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 10, 20141 min read


Gadget-Free Bedrooms
<p>Here’s an interesting article from the New York Times on relationships and technology – how do all our gadgets affect our intimate relationships? http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/04/style/are-gadget-free-bedrooms-the-secret-to-a-happy-relationship.html Learn more about our couples counseling services here.</p>

Raffi Bilek
Dec 4, 20141 min read


Do You Need Couples Counseling?
<p>Are you in need of couples counseling? How would you even know whether you are or not? Here are some questions you can ask yourself to determine whether you are a candidate for marriage counseling: […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Nov 30, 20142 min read


Does My Mommy Have Two Mommies?
<p>Adoption is not just an event in the life of a person; it is on ongoing reality in the life of a whole family. The adoption experience does not begin or end with the adopted […]</p>

Raffi Bilek
Nov 22, 20142 min read
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